I had never considered that there are Christians out there who are not personally affected (hurt) by the sin – any sin – of others.  I just recently discovered this. I am deeply affected by the sin of others – especially loved ones – to the point where I lose my appetite and start trembling.  I have learned that to deal with it, i should just pray for that person (and for myself along the way). I hope it becomes more satisfying to leave it at that soon.